Friday, December 18, 2009

Preventing Child Abuse

A child can often fall prey to ill intentions of the maligned souls. These days, we often come across news of sexual abuse of a child. This is a serious crime that leaves a life-long scar in the mind of the child. Many a times, it has been found that culprit was a close relative or someone who knew the child well. Child abuse can take place any which way. The problem with child abuse is, it is one of the most unreported crimes. A child feels uncomfortable sharing his plight and parents often keep incident secret because of social stigma attached with the incident. So, instead of culprit being brought to law, he often walks free and that too in plain eye sight. Parents must follow certain precautions to save their kids from going through any such ordeal.

First thing is, never leave your kid to vulnerable situations. Make sure to check, who is around the child. While hiring a baby-sitter, make sure to check his/her credentials. Always have personal and open discussion with your kids regarding everything. This way, they will also be able to share any issues they are facing. Give your child privacy. It is very important to have deep discussions with your child. Parents must be tough enough to face realities and handle the situation in best way possible. Don’t just try to pretend that problem does not exist. Keep your child aware of suspected strangers. Parents can teach child to follow their natural instincts.