When parents ponder over the way of parenting their kids, one thing they should always remember is that there is always a choice. When you wonder over your upbringing experience you will come across several events when you were lectured, demanded, advised or corrected. Those memories can often make you think, probably that’s why I emerged successful or a better human being. But in the deep corners of your heart, you might think that there could have been better ways to make my childhood much happier.
Parenting need not to be of managerial style. There are several alternatives of parenting. Parents always have a choice regarding how they would prefer to handle and how to motivate kids. Just don’t try to imitate other parents or don’t follow blindly what other parents or elders teach you. That would not be such an interesting idea. Remember, different kids have different needs. One just can’t generalize good parenting rules and apply to kids ignoring their individual requirements.
Aim for some goals while embarking on parenting journey. Never try to be a perfect parent because that will be an impossible goal. No one is perfect and one is bound to do some mistakes. The only thing important here is to realizing what you value most as a parent and whenever you lose the track and commit some mistakes use that value as your guiding light. Once you stop thinking being perfect parent, there will be a marked improvement in your parenting style.
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